Am I Gay?
Q David (15-17) asks…
My friend (he’s a guy) and I have experimented together. We masturbated each other, rubbed our penises on each other, etc. I really enjoyed it and hope to do it again. I’ve read that same sex stuff in your teen years is common. Is what we have done okay? I’ve fantasized about oral sex with him, is that okay to try. I am sure we are both virgins.
A David:
Well, yes, same-sex activity is common among teens. If this were to become a habit, it’s possible that it will no longer be “experimental.” It’s possible that you two may fall in love with each other, but only you would know whether you’re gay or not. If you have fantasies like this about other men, it’s possible that you have homosexual tendencies. I can’t say whether your activities are “okay” — but if you’re both comfortable with it, then it’s okay for you. I don’t know whether I’d consider you to be a virgin any more. Regardless, you both should protect yourselves!
Via Puberty 101